Here we are not discussing you being trapped, but you trapping others.

Don’t trap others by your expectations in relationships.

You desired the wild child, bad boy, skantily clad babe, flirt, or bad ass, so don’t change them once you are together.

Love=acceptance.

You wanted the fastest, wildest stallion, but now you want to corral the stallion you coveted.

You wanted the super sexy jet, but not that it is yours, you want to keep it grounded in a hanger.

Now of course if you really wanted that red Ferrari and it’s happy being locked in the garage, then that’s perfectly acceptable.